Your Guide to Successful Donor Meetings [+ Checklist]
Meeting a donor face-to-face brings on a lot of pressure. Here’s how to get ready so your next meeting goes smoothly.
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Meeting a donor face-to-face brings on a lot of pressure. Here’s how to get ready so your next meeting goes smoothly.
Join the fundraising movement! Join the fundraising movement!Donor meetings, while intimidating, are a key part of building stronger relationships and lasting partnerships with supporters of all sizes.
You might secure that last gift you need simply by meeting with the right donors at the right time – and using the right strategy.
I’ll walk you through the best practices for your next donor meeting so you can enter it feeling calm, prepared, and ready to make an impact.
Everything you should do before the meeting takes place.
Do your research. Dig into your CRM to see which campaigns your donor gave to in the past. If they’re new to your cause, see which other local organizations they’ve supported.
Beyond their philanthropic interests, what are their passions in their personal life? Quickly review their public social media profiles to get some conversation starters so you can build your connection.
Prepare your talking points ahead of time. Here are some factors to consider:
Being prepared will increase your confidence and show your donor that you care about their time.
Prepare for your donor meeting by making the logistics as smooth as possible.
This means communicating clearly and effectively where and when you’d like to meet, along with sending a confirmation text or email shortly before your meeting.
Choose a location that has the right ambience. For example, a quiet coffee shop is great for conversation, but a crowded deli might not be. Try to choose somewhere you’ve been to before so you can alert your donor to anything they should know, like parking information.
This step is all about making the experience seamless for your donor so you look even better and your meeting can progress hiccup-free.
Tips to make the meeting itself go smoother.
The conversation with your donor should be just that – a conversation. Don’t dominate the meeting by sharing too much at once.
Ask them professional questions about their life (make small talk!), but also be sure to ask questions to get to know your donor’s interests and wants better.
This is your opportunity to continue building your relationship.
We’re all just a little more engaged when we hear a story versus a list of facts. A story engages our imaginations – and moves our hearts.
This is where your preparation will come in handy. Tell real-life stories that demonstrate your organization’s impact.
Try to focus on stories that you’re close to or involved in so it feels more personal and natural.
Engage them further by showcasing your own enthusiasm. Once they see how passionate you are about your mission, they’ll be more open to supporting your work.
And lastly, don’t forget to pause. Breathe. You don’t need to fill in every minute of the conversation. In fact, leave time for your donor to reflect on what you’ve shared, consider their answers, and share their thoughts.
Here’s a trick: don’t rush to fill the silence. Instead, take a deep breath and count to three in your head. This is especially helpful if you’re nervous.
Now it’s time for a call to action.
Don’t make the mistake of treating every donor meeting as a transaction. You aren’t trading your time for a major gift – you’re building a relationship.
Think about ways to invite potential donors into your organization, so they feel like a partner and not just a wallet. Invite them to your next volunteer event or ask them to sign a petition. Just remember to connect it back to their interests.
Donors appreciate it when you’re straightforward with your ask. Don’t feel awkward talking about money.
If you want them to donate $10,000 toward your capital campaign, simply ask. If they’re interested in becoming a part of your organization’s future, they’ll feel better about their gift knowing exactly what you need from them to make an impact.
If you treat donor meetings as an opportunity to build deeper relationships, a no right now doesn’t mean a no forever.
In fact, getting a no gives you the opportunity to understand your donor’s situation. They may not be prepared to give now, or they may need to get to know your organization better before investing in your mission. Take this valuable intel and continue to cultivate.
Congratulations, you had a successful donor meeting! But you’re not off the hook yet.
Whether your donor chose to make a gift or not, you’ll need to follow up on anything you discussed or promised during your meeting.
If they did agree to donate: send them a thank-you note with information about how to donate (like the link to your online donation form), a pledge form, or anything else they may need. Be sure to steward them appropriately once they make their gift – the relationship doesn’t end here!
If they didn’t agree to donate: send them a thank-you note with any additional information they requested and include other activities they may be interested in, like a volunteer opportunity.
Use my thank-you note examples (specifically for donor meetings!) to get a head start.
Log the meeting in your CRM, along with any important information you gained from the meeting.
For example, if your donor revealed that they have a contact with a local foundation that they offered to connect you with, you should make a note.
Here’s everything to do before, during, and after attending a donor meeting:
Still feeling stressed? Fundraising Coach Brittan Stockert shares five tips to take the stress out of donor meetings in episode 181 of The Nonprofit Podcast.
Next time you meet with a donor, use these best practices to make it go smoothly.
Remember, whether your meeting is about securing a donation or not, it’s really a chance to cement a real relationship with your donor – which can be more valuable to your organization in the long term.
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Secure a meeting with a donor by reaching out personally with a phone call, email, or even a handwritten note. You’ll have a better chance of success if you have already met the donor in person or if someone can introduce you to them.
Research your donor to understand their background, philanthropic interests, and personal interests. Also, look into their giving history at your nonprofit or at others. Then prepare talking points that align with their interests and your goals for the meeting.
Lindsey spent years wearing many hats in the nonprofit world. Whether she was helping arts nonprofits with their messaging and content, planning a fundraising gala, writing an NEA grant proposal, or running a membership program with over 400 members, she learned how to navigate – and appreciate! – the fast-paced world of fundraising. Now, she loves sharing those hard-earned lessons with the Donorbox community.
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