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- Everyone experiences Imposter Syndrome, especially in fundraising.<\/li>\n
- Imposter Syndrome often comes from feeling unprepared.<\/li>\n
- Overcoming it requires reframing your role and preparing for major moments.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
\n<\/a>Why Do We Experience Imposter Syndrome in Fundraising?<\/h2>\n
The Imposter Syndrome phenomenon is nothing new, and it\u2019s not only for us lucky fundraisers. But there is something about fundraising in particular that brings it out of us.<\/p>\n
For one, many of us take a not-so-direct pathway to fundraising. Without formal training, a lot of fundraising is driven by gut-feeling and instinct \u2013 and that\u2019s scary for anyone.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Another reason fundraisers feel Imposter Syndrome? Having to talk about money and finances<\/a>. Many of us learn early on that mentioning money is rude, and so we feel a real sense of anxiety asking for gifts. These are real cultural boundaries we have to work to get comfortable with. <\/strong><\/p>\n
Lastly, many fundraisers feel like an inadequate representation of their organization.<\/p>\n
When I represented a beloved cultural institution in my city, there were definitely times where I worried I wasn\u2019t doing the mission \u2013 one that I wholeheartedly believed in \u2013 justice.<\/p>\n
In the end, it\u2019s important to remember that these feelings are natural and, thankfully<\/em>, temporary.<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s how to break through when you\u2019re feeling stuck with Imposter Syndrome.<\/p>\n
\n<\/a>5 Ways to Overcome Fundraising Imposter Syndrome<\/h2>\n
\n<\/a>1. Reframe fundraising<\/h3>\n
It\u2019s time to take some of the pressure off.<\/p>\n
As Britt Stockert shared in Episode 181 of The Nonprofit Podcast:<\/p>\n
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We\u2019re trained to always focus on the ask, but the other ninety percent of the job is about being human and building real relationships.<\/p>\nYou\u2019re not going to leave every donor meeting<\/a> with a check in hand, and that\u2019s okay. When we reframe fundraising to be about connecting with people and understanding what they truly care about, then the task is much more manageable.<\/p>\n
\n<\/a>2. Document your wins<\/h3>\n
Now that you have a better understanding of what fundraising really is, it\u2019s time to build up your \u201cwins\u201d folder.<\/p>\n
Maybe you got a lapsed member to renew, or convinced a repeat donor to join your monthly giving program<\/a>. Or it could be as simple as some good feedback from a donor or your supervisor. Whatever the moment may be, document it so you can reflect on your successes when you\u2019re feeling like you don\u2019t belong.<\/p>\n
Our brains are hardwired to focus on the negatives. Keeping track of those little wins forces a mentality shift to more positive, confident thinking.<\/p>\n
\n<\/a>3. Prepare, prepare, prepare<\/h3>\n
You\u2019re not going to gain years of fundraising experience overnight. But thoughtful preparation for important moments like donor or board meetings<\/a> will help you feel calmer and ultimately more confident.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re meeting with a donor, dive into your CRM data<\/a> to understand their giving patterns and preferences. Learn biographical information, too, so you\u2019ll feel ready for small talk.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re presenting to the board, take your time to create a comprehensive presentation. Anticipate questions and practice your answers.<\/p>\n
\n<\/a>4. Face your fear<\/h3>\n
Next time you feel uncertain about your abilities, don\u2019t shy away from it. Face it head-on.<\/p>\n
Britt Stockert advises making two lists before any big donor meeting: why someone might say yes, and why someone might say no.<\/p>\n
Reasons someone might say yes<\/strong>:<\/p>\n
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- They believe in the mission<\/li>\n
- They\u2019ve been following your organization and feel ready<\/li>\n
- They\u2019ve recently received a windfall and feel generous<\/li>\n
- They\u2019re looking for tax benefits<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Reasons someone might say no<\/strong>:<\/p>\n
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- They don\u2019t fully understand the mission \u2013\u00a0yet!<\/li>\n
- They\u2019re not ready financially<\/li>\n
- They\u2019ve already committed to other causes<\/li>\n
- They need more time to think about it<\/li>\n
- They aren\u2019t sure how their gift will be used<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Ultimately, the reasons in the \u201cno\u201d list are mostly beyond your control \u2013 or they\u2019re things you can expand on during follow-up communications<\/a> with this donor, like educating them on how donations make a real impact.<\/p>\n
\n<\/a>5. Act to alleviate anxiety<\/h3>\n
The best way to beat imposter syndrome, or any anxiety for that matter, is to take action.<\/p>\n
Identify five donors<\/strong> you\u2019d like to meet with. Maybe they\u2019re major donors you want to get to know better, lapsed donors<\/a> you haven\u2019t met yet, or donor prospects who are already in your network.<\/p>\n
Reach out to them and start building those relationships over virtual or in-person coffee meetings. Remember, you aren\u2019t necessarily making an ask here, but rather getting to know what these donors need from you so they\u2019ll feel comfortable giving down the line.<\/p>\n
Afterwards, I guarantee you\u2019ll feel more confident in your skills and energized about the next steps.<\/p>\n
Check out Episode 181 of The Nonprofit Podcast to learn Britt Stockert\u2019s five-step framework for successful donor meetings:<\/p>\n