UNRECONCILED: Giving Tuesday 2025

$4,233.28

Raised

Gifts

$30,000

Goal

The Unreconciled Project is a nonprofit organization that empowers survivors of childhood sexual abuse to reclaim their voices through the art of storytelling. In conjunction with the acclaimed solo-play UNRECONCILED, the Project facilitates storytelling workshops, peer support groups, and public forums with leading experts on the issues of childhood sexual abuse.



Written by Jay Sefton and Mark Basquill, and performed by Jay Sefton, UNRECONCILED takes audiences on a magic carpet ride through parental love and bewilderment during difficult times in a moving portrait of working-class life in a whiskey-drenched, sports-crazed, Irish Catholic suburb of Philadelphia in the 1980s. The story chronicles a survivor’s journey as he confronts his past, navigates a victims’ reparations program set up by the Catholic Church, and discovers the courage to use his voice.



Your support will help bring UNRECONCILED and the Project’s surrounding programs to new cities in 2026, deepening our partnerships with survivor organizations, igniting meaningful conversations that broaden the awareness of the effects of childhood sexual abuse on individuals and communities, and empowering survivors to share their stories.



Fresh off a tour in Ireland, UNRECONCILED is the winner of the Berkshire Theatre Critics Association Awards for Outstanding Solo Performance and Outstanding World Premiere, theatre critics are calling UNRECONCILED: “Theater at its finest,” “Simply artistry, extraordinary artistry,” and “Masterful. Lighting in a bottle on stage . . . a thunderously impactful one-man show.”



Photo One (from left): Jay Sefton (Performer and Playwright), Marty Baron (Journalist, former editor of The Washington Post), and Dave Madsen (Journalist) in conversation at the Majestic Theater in West Springfield, MA.

 



Photo Two: Marci Hamilton (CEO, CHILD USA), Mark Crawford (Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests), Jay Sefton, and Mark Basquill (Playwright) in conversation at the University of Pennsylvania.

 



Photo Three: Patrick Jordan (Artistic Director of Barebones), Shawn Dougherty (Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests), and Jay Sefton in conversation at Barebones Theatre in Braddock, PA.

 



Photo Four: Jay Sefton, Chris Moore (Author, Journalist, Advocate), and Melenie Freedom Flynn (Author and Production Stage Manager) in a post-show conversation at the Lyric Theatre in Belfast, Northern Ireland. 


The Unreconciled Project is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization committed to amplifying survivors’ voices and fostering healing and awareness through art and community partnerships. Your donation is tax-deductible to the fullest extent allowed by law. Our EIN is 33-2456568. Learn more about Unreconciled and our work at unreconciledtheplay.com

Our donors

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sidney fulop

Such beautiful and important work must be supported!!!

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ELLEN PUTNAM

donated

$105.72

Mark and I are so moved by and grateful for Jay Sefton's courage, creativity and compassion - conveyed by this powerful production and the work it has inspired.

EP

ELLEN PUTNAM

donated

$105.72

CJ

Cary Raymond Jon Goode

donated

$263.51

KV

Kristen van Ginhoven

donated

$263.51

Norman and I are cheering you both on. Extraordinary art for such an important cause. Congrats on ALL the service and success with this show- fills us both with joy.

BB

Beth Ann Bryant-Richards

donated

$53.12

A truly moving story, written and performed at the highest artistic level.

JW

James Warwick

Thank you

JC

James Carr

donated

$263.51

Jay - we're grateful to be part of your journey with Unreconciled! Congratulations on this important work and the Project's success. Cate Damon & Jim Carr

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Teresa Doemling

donated

$105.72

Sharing our stories can be the first step to reconciliation, and Jay's story is a powerful and poignant one. I am not surprised that he has found a way to lift others up through his art. Well done, Jay!

KV

kelly vogel

donated

$26.82

Congratulations to Jay for doing such important work. ART is a powerful tool for healing individuals and communities! I am excited to see the ways Jay's project is contributing to very important conversations.

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Brian

This was the most powerful performance I've ever seen (live or film) about how survivors experience religious abuse. I am so grateful for the work you're all doing!

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Jacqueline

donated

$53.12

Speaking the truth through art brings light into the dark times

SS

Stephanie Shafran

donated

$20

Thank you, Jay, for your energetic commitment to this endeavor.

S

Santiago

donated

$53.12

Jay’s work is so beautiful and powerful. I’m proud to know him and to support the healing work of Unreconciled. Thank you Jay!