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We are fundraising to support the running costs and admin time of They Said To Me, our awareness page, dedicated to bringing issues of coercion and unkindness in maternity services out into the open.

The page is being used by midwives, trainers, birth workers and is a source of comfort to birthing women and people that they are not alone.

Costs include the domain, social media scheduling apps, web hosting,.

When those are covered, there maybe some for our time.

Please, keep messaging us, posting, sharing and growing the website and page. These voices can be as loud as you make them. Small acorns grow to large, life sustaining oak trees.

No words are too small, no experience is not important.

As our voices grow, no one can dismiss these coercive, abuses as one offs when they are here in big letters and from here, from the contributors and followers, change must happen.

We can also be booked to talk at conferences and to groups of students, midwives and birth workers.